He is joining my friend and I for movie night. I'm not sure what I could suggest that we do together in the future, especially since everything we are doing is virtual because of Covid. I am wandering what things will look like for when we try to hang out together when classes start next week and ou...

I have been thinking about how to approach my crush with rescheduling a time to hang out, and I don't know if I want to be alone with him this time. I schedules to do a movie night with one of my best friends in a couple of nights. I do movie nights with him regularly, and we take turns choosing fil...

First, Sam I think it is awesome that you have a thing for Vincent Price, even though the only thing I have seen him in is in an episode of "Night Gallery", but some of his horror movies are on my watch list. For me having reservations about being capable of getting in the character's head...

I think I mainly have reservations about it because I didn't know I was capable of doing it. I feel comfortable telling my friend who I have been talking to about sex with, but I am definitely not ready to tell the person I like. I have always felt a little weird about talking about my celebrity cru...

With the role play, I mentioned that I was going to try to get into the head of the character, which I didn't think I would actually be able to do, but I managed to do it. It's like I didn't even have to think about what I was doing, it's like the character I was was saying to me, "Alright, I'm...

I was supposed to hang out with my friend today, but I asked if we could reschedule for later in the week. I was supposed to talk with another friend last night, the one that I have been talking about sex with, but that also had to get reschedule to tomorrow night. I wanted to talk to this friend be...

I acted out my role play last night. After a month of planning it I actually managed to go through with it. My parents understood that I needed privacy and respected my wishes. That was interesting. I wanted to get into the mindset of the character, and wasn't sure I was going to be able to do it, b...

Question, I have been reading Jen Gunter's "The Vagina Bible" the past couple of weeks, and something that both my mom and a friend who I have talking to about sex says that I should pee after having sex or masturbating because not doing do could cause a UTI, but the book says that peeing ...

I think some resources on how to read romantic cues would be helpful, although I already found and read an article on the site that was helpful. I can't really think of anything in particular to ask. I just finished my second hangout with him. It also went really well. It looks like we're going to t...

I think for now I would like to focus on deepening the friendship. Ever since my last relationship ended, I have had trouble trusting people, and I would like to be able to feel like I can trust him. I have thought about flirting a little, but in the past whenever I thought somebody tried to flirt w...

Hey I thought maybe I should start another thread since my last one was getting pretty long, and since I'm no longer a newbie. I also didn't know which category would be the most appropriate, and thought maybe this one since friendships are also relationships. I mentioned in my last thread that I hu...

Hey I just want to say that I just wrapped up hanging out with the guy, and I had a really good time. He seems really chill, and it was nice to finally talk with him, even if it was virtual. We're going to try to hang out again next week at the same time. I think it's safe to say that we're just goi...

Thank you I'm going to be hanging out with the guy I like next week. Virtually of course, and we're going to watch a classic movie. We don't have a day and time picked out yet. I'm excited, but there is a voice in my head saying "Help!". I think I got a little over anxious when he said he ...

Hi To answer your question, when I was talking about the tank top, I was trying to figure out what I wanted to wear during my masturbation role play, and was considering wearing something that made me look "sexy" in a way, but seeing myself wear the tank top made me feel uncomfortable. I h...

I'm not completely sure what I want. What I know I want is to feel comfortable enough to let a partner see my full body when my time comes for losing my virginity. My curves are definitely still noticeable to some degree even with men's clothes on, but they're not emphasized. It has even come up in ...

My experience with the guy in school is something I have talked to others in my life about, but it wasn't until long after it ended. Even though I had the panic attack when I was a freshman, I didn't start seeing a therapist until I was a junior. I guess even after I got to a point where I couldn't ...

Good morning. Hope you all were able to have a nice Christmas or Holiday season with whatever you celebrate despite the global circumstances. It was decent for me, it was a relief to not see my conservative relatives this year. I finally got myself to have a masturbation session with that sex scene ...

I had another chat with my parents' friend today, which went pretty well. We have another meeting scheduled in a couple of weeks, which happens to be on the one year anniversary of when that woman kicked me out of her life, and by then I should also have something scheduled with that guy that I have...

Yeah, I do find the article helpful, and I also read the "I like to fantasize about it, but would I like it in real life?" one. I had a masturbation session last night, not the fantasy one though. I plan on waiting for a little while before I act it out so that I have a full idea of what I...

Thank you, I do feel better about performing my fantasy since I know my parents will leave me alone if I tell them, and have options for blocking out sound. Do you have tips on what I can do to set the mood for myself? Like I said earlier, my plan in to put on this movie, dress as the character, say...

I am able to lock the door in my bedroom, which is right across the hall from my parents room, but I feel okay masturbating in there when I am watching something and am wearing earbuds, but it wouldn't be the best environment for my role play fantasy because there isn't enough space. I prefer to tal...

Usually my parents try to do something to get my attention if I have my door closed. I have GAD, and weird things trigger it. I told them to please stop knocking because it does trigger it. I thought they were going to just start calling over the door, but instead they started scratching it like a c...

Hello This is a long story, sorry about that.  I am a 20 year old biological female who identifies as gender nonbinary. I feel more male than female, and wear men's clothing, but there is definitely a feminine streak in me.  My relationship with birth control and the idea of sex is complicated. I'm ...