Hi Kittylemon0, As others were touching on fantasies can be a way for us to explore our sexuality and understand ourselves, but do not have to be something that will happen or something that we want to happen. If you have a concern that you would not be able to hold on to boundaries set to keep your...

Naurmi008, Sperm cells are very delicate and need very particular conditions in order to survive. Anything that is outside of the conditions of the body, such as temperature, causes the sperm cells to die. I can include this source that touches on this topic further: https://www.scarleteen.com/about...

Hi Mothical2849, Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Working through how our upbringings and society has shaped us can feel daunting, but it is not impossible. From what I am reading here in your post it seems as though you possibly may be holding on to some negative messaging about sex ...

Hi Demigirl09, Touching on what Sam was discussing, do you think you would be able to open the conversation with your mother about the boundaries you both are comfortable with during these talks? This may be helpful so that these talks are the most fulfilling for both parties, and hopefully can redu...

Hi Jay27, Good for you for practicing safer sex with your partner and planning on how you will set boundaries with future partners. Every individual is different and it will be most important to be upfront about your expectations for safer sex and barriers. In reality, this may not be something ever...

Hi Lyle Lanley, That sounds like a good idea to book a gynecology appointment. Unfortunately in this forum, it is difficult for me to understand the anatomy you are describing to me (as well as we do not/can not diagnose in this online setting), so it would be best to take this issue to the medical ...

Hi StellaOs, Thank you for sharing all of that further. Navigating from sexual interaction one-on-one to a group setting can be a big step for many people. It also sounds like a step for you from sex in a monogamous relationship to more "casual" sexual interaction. This is not to say that ...

Hi Demigirl09, Societal standards placed on us can often feel extremely daunting and perpetually out of reach, and one big reason for that is these standards are often unattainable. There is no such thing as a perfect high school girl who has a boyfriend and everything she wants and is completely ha...

Hi Sarah22,

Sperm is very fragile and can not survive outside of the body for very long, so there is no risk of pregnancy in this scenario. For there to be a risk of pregnancy there needs to be direct contact of ejaculate/pre-ejaculate and the vagina or vulva, which did not occur here.

Hi Jacob12455, Naturally, some people have tighter foreskins than others, the medical term being phimosis. Some individuals with phimosis never experience any problems and live normal sex lives, while others experience some discomfort or pain. If you are experiencing pain or discomfort it can be som...

Hi Askingqueries,

If you don't have anymore questions then you don't have to respond to the thread anymore, however if something else arrises feel free to comment back on this thread or to start a new one! Have a good day!

Hi Starskies143, A good rule of thumb for masturbation is to do things that feel good or pleasurable, and if something is uncomfortable or painful to stop or take a break from it. There are a few different ways to approach what you are asking. One thing I want to start with is that not everyone enjo...

Hi Luna, Thanks for giving more context for what you are looking at specifically! One source you could start with looking at is: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships/the_bees_andthe_bees_a_homosexuality_and_bisexuality_primer. I think this source can be a good starting place to look at t...

Hi Mika.m, The patriarchy in simplest terms can be understood as the system of subjugation and oppression of women socially, economically, sexually, physically, etc by men and larger systemic institutions. Understanding this we can take these ideas further by understanding how individuals outside of...

Hi Demigirl09, What sort of information are looking for about polyamory specifically? One source I can point you to to get you started is: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships/a_first_polyamory_guide. This is a good source to understand if you are interested in this relationship structur...

Hi Mika.m,

Yes it is fine to remember experiences you have and things you saw to use them in times like during masturbation. This is common for people to think about certain people they know or have seen to become aroused. Doing this in private is fine.

Hi 55, I agree with Sam that asking your doctor will give you the most accurate advice because it is specific to the contraception you are using specifically and the medication that you are on. Your doctor will also have more experience of history of past patients and their reactions and that knowle...

Hi Chelsealewis, I am glad that you had a comfortable experience and that he was prioritizing consent, that is always very important between two sexual partners. I am just going to ask a couple more questions so I can better understand the situation if that is alright. When engaging in sexual activi...

Hi Mika.m, I can not speak on the nuances of the morality police in Iran specifically, but I would say most likely due to systemic transphobia that they view trans men in these situations as women. You are very correct they are not women and that they are men, but unfortunately transphobia can often...

Hi Terence, One option, like Latha touched on, would be to clarify before hand by being honest with your feelings. Sometimes this can be scary so another possibility would be to take things slower and hang out and either at the end of the hang or after (if you enjoyed yourself and felt it went well)...

Hi Mika.m, English grammer can be very confusing, english is my native language and I make mistakes all the time! One thing I can point out is that "they/them" is often used as a pronoun set for individuals in english, often times if you do not know the person you are talking abouts gender...

Hi Mika.m, Noticing someone in a public place and noticing a physical feature you like it not against her privacy, as that is how she chose to present herself. Like Latha said it is about balancing this noticing and attraction with knowing it is not respectful to overly stare at just a physical aspe...

Hi Demigirl! Sorry I didn't send the sources right away! I just wanted to check in first and see if that would be something that your godfather would be open to, because you know him best and what his threshold is. Were you able to take a look at the source Andy sent? I do think that source would be...

Hi Transman, Touching on what Sam was discussing being comfortable and confident can definitely affect how we see ourselves and our openness to thinks such as crushes, attraction, or relationships. While no one needs to have these things figured out to seek out relationships, sometimes investing in ...

Hi Shoelaces99, Discharge can often change throughout your menstrual cycle, for example around ovulation the discharge can become more thin and clear while later in your cycle it is normal for the discharge to thicken or change in color to more white or yellow. One source I can give you to give some...