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- Sat Dec 02, 2023 7:21 pm
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: Birth control pills gave me iron deficiency anemia
- Replies: 4
- Views: 8135
Re: Birth control pills gave me iron deficiency anemia
I really hope so! My primary care doctor just refused to write me an accommodation letter for school so I’m just going to have to hope my psychiatrist can do it instead.
- Fri Dec 01, 2023 8:11 am
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: Birth control pills gave me iron deficiency anemia
- Replies: 4
- Views: 8135
Re: Birth control pills gave me iron deficiency anemia
It’s really hard to deal with Breakthrough bleeding is a very common side effect on this pill. At first it just felt like an inconvenience to buy menstrual products all the time, but as the weeks have passed, the fatigue gets worse and worse.
- Fri Dec 01, 2023 7:29 am
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: Birth control pills gave me iron deficiency anemia
- Replies: 4
- Views: 8135
Birth control pills gave me iron deficiency anemia
I’ve posted on the boards about breakthrough bleeding and fatigue on my birth control pill (been taking it for 3 months). My doctor finally found out what’s causing the fatigue! It’s iron deficiency anemia caused by the bleeding. Even though I’m not losing a lot of blood each day, because I'm bleedi...
- Tue Nov 28, 2023 8:34 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Re: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
Queer friendships can be really messy and undefined. I guess I’ve been questioning what relationships even are.
- Sun Nov 26, 2023 2:41 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Re: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
I think if I did polyamory at this point in my life, the other partner would have to be low commitment. I’m dealing with enough stress right now. I think my problem is that I don’t have clear lines between friendships and romance. Throughout my life, I’ve had close friendships that look like dating ...
- Sat Nov 25, 2023 9:50 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Re: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
My anxiety disorder makes it hard to live in the moment and not want answers right away. My gf and I texted about this yesterday. She said that we don’t have to be sure of anything and that we’ll keep talking during our relationship about what words for us.
- Fri Nov 24, 2023 8:30 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Re: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
That’s true. Since my gf told me she had already had thoughts about polyamory, maybe she would’ve brought it up eventually if I hadn’t. When I say my time is limited, I mean that we’re both very busy college students juggling school, work, extracurriculars, and our social lives. It’s already hard to...
- Thu Nov 23, 2023 8:33 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Re: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
I haven’t explored any physical touch with my friends. It feels weird to ask. One of them offered, but it’s the same person I have a crush on and I’m monogamous right now. It’s embarrassing but I’ve felt turned on from cuddling or even holding hands with someone I really like. I don’t want to experi...
- Wed Nov 22, 2023 9:58 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Re: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
I think discussing pros and cons would be good. The uncertainty of it scares me and sometimes I wonder whether I should’ve brought polyamory up at all since I’m not sure. Since I don’t see a clear difference between romantic and platonic attraction, I also don’t know whether I really want multiple r...
- Wed Nov 22, 2023 8:50 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Re: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
We’re still together and we didn’t take a break. I’ve definitely been struggling with the long distance but I’m trying to spend more time with my friends and I stopped making my plans around her schedule. I guess that her not being around in person gave me more time to form deep emotional connection...
- Wed Nov 22, 2023 7:32 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
- Replies: 17
- Views: 29664
Brought up an open relationship to my gf, but I’m not sure
I’ve been in a monogamous relationship with my gf for a year. I developed a crush on my best friend a few weeks ago, and I started questioning whether I can be in love with one person at a time. (I never acted on the crush). For me and my gf, the line between platonic and romantic attraction is blur...
- Fri Nov 17, 2023 5:25 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
Fun little update! (sarcasm)
For the regular blood tests, everything is normal except for my iron being a bit low.
My Lyme disease test was borderline. So now we’re looking into that
For the regular blood tests, everything is normal except for my iron being a bit low.
My Lyme disease test was borderline. So now we’re looking into that
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 1:49 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
I had an appointment with my psychiatrist and he ordered blood work under the insurance code for anemia so it’s not technically repeating. We don’t know if I have anemia but it’s likely. I’m also getting tested for a bunch of other vitamin deficiencies. I’m going tomorrow.
- Thu Nov 02, 2023 8:48 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
It’s okay! My college health center told me that I need to ask the insurance company if I can repeat bloodwork that was taken a few months ago. Maybe there was a miscommunication or they just didn’t know what they were talking about.
- Thu Nov 02, 2023 11:33 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
Hi Heather, I’m not sure if I still want to call the insurance company. Could the doctor at planned parenthood order blood work? It just seems easier to go through a doctor instead of asking for it myself. If not, I’ll email you.
- Wed Nov 01, 2023 7:02 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
Yeah maybe I should get my iron levels checked and get an ultrasound to see if I have fibroids or any other kind of growth. My flow isn’t heavy, but I’m probably still losing a lot of blood over time. My gyno never told me about when to start the pill so I just thought I could start taking it any da...
- Wed Nov 01, 2023 3:07 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
I guess I have about 20 years to prepare :( I started the pill in the end of august but I didn’t get my period at all that month. I have PCOS so sometimes it just skips a month or two. I didn’t want to wait. Also, I just remembered that my mom had this problem and it ended up being a benign growth t...
- Wed Nov 01, 2023 2:26 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
Thanks! I also have a planned parenthood appointment in less than 2 days because I just can’t deal with this anymore.
- Wed Nov 01, 2023 12:56 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
That would be so helpful! I skipped class and just woke up from a 2 hour nap. I’ve also been feeling very anxious lately about class registration because I don’t know if I’ll have to work around the fatigue. Idk if it’s enough info but this is what the college health center told me I need. I have Un...
- Tue Oct 31, 2023 4:17 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
My gf is abroad so she can’t help. One of my college counselors offered to.
- Tue Oct 31, 2023 8:07 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
We’re monogamous. I went to my college health center for it last month, and they said i need to call my insurance company to ask if they would cover a repeat of blood work that I got 2 months ago. I had like 12 tubes of blood drawn in August and got normal results for almost everything except FSH an...
- Tue Oct 31, 2023 7:57 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
I’ve struggled with fatigue for a while but before I got on the pill, it was never so bad that I was falling asleep in class even after 8 hours of sleep, and then I’d need a 2 hour nap later. My sleep has been messed up lately because of personal issues that are making me anxious. But until a week a...
- Tue Oct 31, 2023 7:44 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
My doctor is seeing me in late December to talk about it. She said it could take 4 months to adjust. I’m so tired of the side effects! It’s reduced my cramps by like 90% but bleeding mid month and feeling super tired every day is so hard to deal with. Do you think that bleeding for like 20 days a mo...
- Mon Oct 30, 2023 5:56 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 128547
Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
I always end up taking my pills sometime between 10 pm and 1 am, very rarely 2 am. My alarm is set for 11 pm every day but sometimes I go to bed early or stay out late. I’m on Slynd, which is a progestin only pill and its website says it has a “24 hour safe window.” I’ve been on it for just over 2 m...
- Sun Oct 01, 2023 8:32 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Are dental dams safe?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 4960
Re: Are dental dams safe?
Are there any non flavored ones that are non latex? I was tested and I’m not technically allergic, but I have contact dermatitis.