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by girlplayer34
Mon Sep 14, 2020 4:35 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Been wondering for a long time...
Replies: 11
Views: 4782

Re: Been wondering for a long time...

To be honest I'm scared of dating. I feel like the reason I've been single for so long because I tell myself the right girl will come along and I set these high unrealistic expectations for myself and I know I'm never gonna find that girl because she doesn't exist. It's like setting myself up for fa...
by girlplayer34
Sat Sep 12, 2020 2:28 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Been wondering for a long time...
Replies: 11
Views: 4782

Been wondering for a long time...

So does anyone get that feeling of being so single because all of their friends are in relationships? I mean for me I've always had a hard time connecting with people some of my friends say I'm like Jesse Eisenberg well my personality type anyways. I've very though much of it to be honest with you m...
by girlplayer34
Sat Sep 05, 2020 5:25 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Sisters before misters...?
Replies: 4
Views: 2218

Re: Sisters before misters...?

I think you should go for it if you really like him and if she's really your friend she should understand.
by girlplayer34
Sat Sep 05, 2020 5:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What do you think love is?
Replies: 1
Views: 2267

What do you think love is?

I have a question for everyone here. I've been on this website for the last three months and I wanna know something, what do you think love is? I mean we all complain about it either we get too much or too little or basically none at all, we say we want relationships yet we push people away. People ...
by girlplayer34
Wed Sep 02, 2020 1:59 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm Confused
Replies: 5
Views: 2957

Re: I'm Confused

I'm a little confused what do you mean dating is better when you haven't fully decided ? I have also felt like love is a gamble no matter how I looked at either I'm happy or I get hurt there are no other options. My therapist thinks I am trying to deflect but it doesn't feel like that to me. I mean ...
by girlplayer34
Wed Sep 02, 2020 7:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm Confused
Replies: 5
Views: 2957

Re: I'm Confused

I wanted a serious, long term relationship when I was 4 years old I mean we all the know the stories fair-tales we tell ourselves. But once I found out I was gay I think I was often punished for wanting love so now it's like a taboo to me, making me wanting it more because of how shocked and ashamed...
by girlplayer34
Tue Sep 01, 2020 5:32 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm Confused
Replies: 5
Views: 2957

I'm Confused

So basically I've been single my whole life, I've never had a girlfriend. I sometimes I don't know if I do, it sounds amazing to have someone in your life that loves and cares for you but I also like being alone. Seeing some of my friends in relationships they always have to go out and hangout with ...
by girlplayer34
Mon Jul 20, 2020 6:46 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Being Single is a Disease
Replies: 3
Views: 2503

Being Single is a Disease

I've been single since for 8 years which is a long time I'm 22 and I have never once been in a relationship. I am the single friend in the group who can't get a girlfriend and I just so sick of being single. Everyone keeps telling me to be patient and that the right one will come but I've kinda lost...
by girlplayer34
Mon Jul 13, 2020 6:06 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: How Old Were You?
Replies: 2
Views: 1890

How Old Were You?

I have a questions for all of you. Our society puts a lot of pressure on us to lose our virginities at a certain age for me I'm 22 and I still haven't lost it yet nor do I know if it will ever happen. Sometimes I feel too old and embarrassed I wanted this long but then again I was too scared at firs...
by girlplayer34
Mon Jul 13, 2020 5:59 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tall Girl Problems
Replies: 13
Views: 5052

Re: Tall Girl Problems

Yes I'm open to it now. I mean with COVID I don' think it will be the same but I am willing to try and meet people over the internet even though I'm not 100% comfortable with it.
by girlplayer34
Mon Jul 13, 2020 12:36 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tall Girl Problems
Replies: 13
Views: 5052

Re: Tall Girl Problems

Well I like coding I'm a programmer I like basketball and I also like skateboarding. Topics I like many topics not a big fan of pop culture tho i don't keep up with the Kardashians and I don't care what new house Justin Bieber bought but I do like math and physics, I also like playing classic piano ...
by girlplayer34
Sun Jul 12, 2020 1:14 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tall Girl Problems
Replies: 13
Views: 5052

Re: Tall Girl Problems

I hear that. It can be really hard to envision a future for yourself in a loving relationship when you aren't shown lesbian love frequently on TV, in movies, or in the world around you. I also feel like if we've been hoping/waiting to have a relationship come along for us, it can start to feel like...
by girlplayer34
Sat Jul 11, 2020 4:10 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tall Girl Problems
Replies: 13
Views: 5052

Re: Tall Girl Problems

Its just something I have always felt ever since I found out I was gay. I mean like I said i didn't think those thing were possible for me, it wasn't something I told myself like straight kids did that one day I would meet the one and we would fall in love and get married it was never real for me. I...
by girlplayer34
Fri Jul 10, 2020 11:53 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tall Girl Problems
Replies: 13
Views: 5052

Re: Tall Girl Problems

I've seen the movie and I can relate it just for me love was something I never thought I could have not just because of height, being gay and a virgin but it's just something I thought never happened to me. It wasn't something I told myself like my straight friends did that one day I would fall in l...
by girlplayer34
Tue Jul 07, 2020 6:22 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tall Girl Problems
Replies: 13
Views: 5052

Re: Tall Girl Problems

I don't really feel confident on my body which sucks but I'm working to get better about and taking better care of myself so I hope in the future I can overcome that whats your friends secret? how did they find people excited to date a tall girl? I would love to know cause apparently I'm missing som...
by girlplayer34
Tue Jul 07, 2020 3:56 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Tall Girl Problems
Replies: 13
Views: 5052

Tall Girl Problems

So here's the thing I'm super single, have been for the last few years. I'm honestly at the point where I will probably never find a girlfriend and not just cause I'm awkward but I'm super tall. I'm 6'1 which is pretty tall for a girl and I feel that no one will want to date me people tell me I'ma p...
by girlplayer34
Mon Jul 06, 2020 3:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How Old is Too Old?
Replies: 5
Views: 2053

Re: How Old is Too Old?

Yes it makes sense thank you for all the articles. I'm a romantic, from books to movies I've always wanted someone to come in and sweep me off of my feet. Most of my friends are in relationships and they tell me that relationships don't work that way. I'm sacred t be honest with you I want to be wit...
by girlplayer34
Sun Jul 05, 2020 8:30 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How Old is Too Old?
Replies: 5
Views: 2053

Re: How Old is Too Old?

Thank you, My friends are sexually active they just think at my age I should have lost it already and what if they are right. My biggest fear is that I get a girlfriend she finds out I’m a virgin and laughs or worst leaves because she can’t be with someone who doesn’t have any experience I mean that...
by girlplayer34
Sun Jul 05, 2020 7:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: How Old is Too Old?
Replies: 5
Views: 2053

How Old is Too Old?

Hi, My name is Deja and I'm a 22 year old virgin. I have never had sex before and always wondered what it would be like, I've never had a girlfriend or really been in a relationship before. I have a lot of anxiety of when I'm going to find someone and also having sex in general, I'm scared I won't b...