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by Raffles
Tue Apr 14, 2020 9:04 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Keeping in Touch
Replies: 5
Views: 2872

Re: Keeping in Touch

The thing that gets me over the hurdle of contacting people is just knowing that if I don't reach out, there is no way that we would get in touch. I'd rather try and not get a response than not try at all. It's also knowing that people don't have to respond or meet up. As for the importance of plato...
by Raffles
Sun Apr 12, 2020 4:20 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Keeping in Touch
Replies: 5
Views: 2872

Keeping in Touch

I'm not entirely sure if this is the right section to ask this question because the others seem to be about romantic/sexual relationships, but this seemed like the closest category. For some background- I'm an introvert, and I generally keep to myself. But when I find someone that I click with, I re...
by Raffles
Wed Apr 08, 2020 3:25 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Coming out as agender?
Replies: 21
Views: 14105

Re: Coming out as agender?

Helping students is what teaching is all about. I went to a small private school, and I did not have a single teacher of color from 6th grade through graduation. I had two gay teachers. That was it, and that lack of representation was really difficult for me as a young, queer, person of color. I fel...
by Raffles
Wed Apr 08, 2020 1:36 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Coming out as agender?
Replies: 21
Views: 14105

Re: Coming out as agender?

I’ve been thinking a lot about gender expression (and this might turn into its own post because it’s a big topic). There are so many ways to look like a man or a woman, but we tend to have a very narrow definition of what androgynous looks like. On top of that, there’s definitely a pressure to appea...
by Raffles
Wed Apr 08, 2020 10:37 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Coming out as agender?
Replies: 21
Views: 14105

Coming out as agender?

I discovered the term agender back in January. Since then, I've been trying it out and I really like it. The more I think back on my life experiences and what I now understand as dysphoria and euphoria, the more agender makes sense as an identity for me. I'd really love for people to see me as a per...