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- Wed Aug 20, 2014 9:04 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Message boards
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2013
Re: Message boards
Hi natcmau, For your first five posts, you'll only be able to post in certain areas (you can read which ones here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=21&t=24 ) Luckily, in the area you've posted this question in, we have a few topics going that are meant to be conversation starters to ...
- Wed Aug 20, 2014 8:45 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How do you express intimacy?
- Replies: 0
- Views: 2444
How do you express intimacy?
So, a little while ago we published this article on intimacy: Intimacy: The Whys, Hows, How-Nots, and So-Nots Taking what that article says about intimacy and all the ways it can be expressed, what does intimacy mean to you? How do you express it to the people you're close to? Do you find that the w...
- Tue Aug 19, 2014 6:57 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: am i being too pushy?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2756
Re: am i being too pushy?
Glad to hear it
- Tue Aug 19, 2014 10:35 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Overweight and birth control effectiveness?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1935
Re: Overweight and birth control effectiveness?
Hi Jirish, There are some physical and wellness factors that may mean the pill is not the best choice for someone, but weight by itself is not one of them. Plus, when your healthcare provider is helping you decide on birth control, they are factoring in things like weight and your health history whe...
- Tue Aug 19, 2014 8:48 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Question
- Replies: 6
- Views: 4046
Re: Question
Hi Aj,
So, this is one of those scenarios where we're not 100% comfortable saying it had no effect on your pill. However, it takes 2-3 hours after taking a pill for the pill to absorb, so if the vomiting happened after that window, then it would not have had an effect.
So, this is one of those scenarios where we're not 100% comfortable saying it had no effect on your pill. However, it takes 2-3 hours after taking a pill for the pill to absorb, so if the vomiting happened after that window, then it would not have had an effect.
- Tue Aug 19, 2014 7:46 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 4652
Re: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?
Hi Lisa, So, avoiding that pain has less to do with the corona/hymen and more to do with your own arousal level and how relaxed you feel. So, some ways to to increase your comfort and minimize the chances of discomfort are to make sure that you're feeling warmed up enough before penetration (you and...
- Mon Aug 18, 2014 7:45 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: am i being too pushy?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2756
Re: am i being too pushy?
Hi Noa, I think the most sound decision to make in this situation is to have a talk (if you haven't already) with your partner about boundaries around sexual stuff. That way, you'll both be talking explicitly about your desires and boundaries, so nobody is having to guess if they're pushing someone ...
- Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:05 am
- Forum: Site Help & Service
- Topic: Thank you
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3931
Re: Thank you
Morad, thank you so much for your kind words, and we're so glad to hear that you've found our site helpful and welcoming!
- Mon Aug 18, 2014 10:30 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Possible pregnancy risk?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4314
Re: Possible pregnancy risk?
Hi Willow, If you've had what looked, felt, and came at the same time as your period, then you can assume that was your period, and that, by extension you're not pregnant. However, if you're still feeling like you need confirmation , taking a pregnancy test is something you can do to get that confir...
- Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:03 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 4652
Re: My hymen didnt bleed When it tore. Is this Normal ?
Hi Lisa, It's likely that what you felt was your hymen (or corona) stretching. You can read more about that here: My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It You might also want to check out this piece, since it sounds like penetration is still causing some di...
- Mon Aug 18, 2014 7:50 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Inducing periods
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2926
Re: Inducing periods
Hi hopee,
Nope, there is not really a way to induce a period. There are ways that a person can try to regulate their cycle (like via hormonal birth control), but not ways to make a period come exactly when you want it to.
Nope, there is not really a way to induce a period. There are ways that a person can try to regulate their cycle (like via hormonal birth control), but not ways to make a period come exactly when you want it to.
Re: Guilt
Hi bigbywolf, That sounds like you've got some rough emotions running around in your head. I'm glad you've opened up this conversation with your boyfriend, and it sounds like he's receptive to talking about it and helping you when these thoughts come up. So, I think your plan to have a more involved...
- Fri Aug 15, 2014 7:53 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: First Experiences with the OB-GYN
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4712
First Experiences with the OB-GYN
Something we see some users being nervous about going in for an exam with a gynecologist. So, for those of you who've been, were you worried before your first visit? What were you worried about? If you weren't worried, what helped you be that way? Is there anything that, in retrospect, you'd wish yo...
- Fri Aug 15, 2014 8:46 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: If unwanted pregnancy happened in my community, your advice?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4665
Re: If unwanted pregnancy happened in my community, your adv
I think this is one of those situations that's very tricky to discuss in the hypothetical , because how to approach it would depend very much on the individuals involved. Of the couple, they'd need to decide what consequences they'd be willing to face and how likely they are to occur, and what they'...
- Fri Aug 15, 2014 7:42 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: If unwanted pregnancy happened in my community, your advice?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4665
Re: If unwanted pregnancy happened in my community, your adv
Hi Morad,
Just to clarify, when you say cause to kill, are you referring to a law that says that the penalty for unmarried pregnancy is death, or to a practice that's common in the culture?
Just to clarify, when you say cause to kill, are you referring to a law that says that the penalty for unmarried pregnancy is death, or to a practice that's common in the culture?
- Thu Aug 14, 2014 8:38 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: The Fault In Our Stars
- Replies: 11
- Views: 9036
Re: The Fault In Our Stars
I loved TFIOS when it came out as a book, and I'm glad to hear that the movie kept the tone and spirit of the book. I'm with Redskies that the characters have always read as very realistic. There's a good balance between snarkiness and cynicism and genuine sweetness and vulnerability. I also feel li...
- Thu Aug 14, 2014 8:24 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Alternative Menstrual Remedies
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4619
Re: Alternative Menstrual Remedies
I just want to second the bit in the original post about the stick-on heating pads. You can get a pack of three for around 8 bucks (the size that says it's for wrist and neck should work for most people) and they can be lifesavers if you need to be at work or school a day when you're having bad cram...
- Thu Aug 14, 2014 7:25 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
- Replies: 15
- Views: 6476
Re: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
Okay, so a good first step would be to check out the "help near you" link on the main Scarleteen webpage. This allows to search for resources in your area and see if there's one that fits your needs:
http://www.scarleteen.com/find_a_doc
http://www.scarleteen.com/find_a_doc
- Thu Aug 14, 2014 7:20 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Clitoral Desensitization: Myth or Truth?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 21141
Re: Clitoral Desensitization: Myth or Truth?
You're welcome, and I'm glad you found it helpful
- Thu Aug 14, 2014 7:16 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I'm fifteen and I think I might be bi
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2547
Re: I'm fifteen and I think I might be bi
You're welcome
- Wed Aug 13, 2014 9:07 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Clitoral Desensitization: Myth or Truth?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 21141
Re: Clitoral Desensitization: Myth or Truth?
Hi CrimsonCat, The short answer is nope, you cannot desensitize or hurt yourself from masturbating frequently. With the showerhead, as long as you aren't directing a spray of water into your vagina, you can't hurt yourself by doing that. There is simply no data to support the idea that masturbating ...
- Wed Aug 13, 2014 8:45 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
- Replies: 15
- Views: 6476
Re: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
Okay, so you'd like something a little more immediate than your psychiatrist (or would you feel comfortable asking if you two could talk sooner than planned)? Is something like a support group more what you'd like, or would you prefer something more like a one on one counselor (or something else ent...
- Wed Aug 13, 2014 8:39 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
- Replies: 15
- Views: 6476
Re: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
When you say "this" can you clarify for me what you're referring to?
- Wed Aug 13, 2014 8:16 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
- Replies: 15
- Views: 6476
Re: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
Right on I'd say now is the time to bust them out.
At the this point, is there anything else (within the scope of things we're able to do) that you'd like help with or to talk about?
At the this point, is there anything else (within the scope of things we're able to do) that you'd like help with or to talk about?
- Wed Aug 13, 2014 7:50 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
- Replies: 15
- Views: 6476
Re: One Night Stand & Flashbacks
It's totally normal to feel scared in a moment like this. And it's definitely normal to wish that answers would arrive faster than they are, or that you could go back in time. But all the worry in the world won't make those answers appear faster, and will just make you unhappy in the interim. All yo...