That's fine! Here are some I can think of off the top of my head: The way we communicate; we do everything we can to talk through one another's wants and needs and try to understand one another How hard we try to work through things for one another big factor My partner is very gentle with me and re...

I just want them to be happy. I really REALLY don't want to leave them if they are still willing to try as well. I also want to take their word for it that their current depression spell is not because of me. They did talk about family issues being the cause (specifially a close family member possib...

Yes, we had planned to be in a sexual situation. When I had asked the first time they said no; afterward I felt uncomfortable and upset because I still felt aroused so I asked specifically if I should go. (I just wanted to leave and masturbate because I felt uncomfortable with how the smallest touch...

Hi Mo, I want to thank all of you so much for your input so far. It's also nice to be reminded my sexual desire is okay and that certain ideas about testosterone and masculine sexuality are untrue. I will say this: I'm putting this out here because these thoughts are still persisting. I know logical...

1. I am in therapy and trying to talk about this particular topic with my most current therapist but I also have been talking about other aspects of life. With this particular therapist we've been examining only the general basis of how I can cope with other life events regarding my family and trans...

Hey Kind Staff Member, 1. For the first bit: I grew up as a queer kid in a Christian home. I also discovered masturbation pretty early (before age 9) and was caught by my parents and shamed for that ever since. I was asked by my parents if someone showed me or if I was molested. Ever since then I ex...

Hey all, I've been dating a person for about 6 months now and have noticed a rise in a relationship problem from around 2-4 months in the relationship. I struggle with sexual shame and myths about my sexuality as a masculine trans person with a higher sex drive. My partner has some sexual trauma and...