it's been over a year now!

almost 11 now!

-Chanukah. it's one of the few Jewish holidays my family celebrates and it's nice to come together just with my immediate family -my sibling's birthday in January -thanksgiving. FOOD! oh and also extended family coming together -my lovely boyfriend's birthday this month -the premiere of Star Wars: T...

my concept of gender is kinda strange and self-contradictory. I simultaneously acknowledge and recognize it as a thing in the universe, and acknowledge how much of a constantly changing human creation it is. for myself, though, gender is a pretty simple(even though I'll inevitably complicate it in d...

(hypothetically) for one who has little to no experience with rope, would making a non-restraining or barely restraining karada tie, rope dress, whatever you want to call it on oneself be inadvisable?

"digital love" by daft punk. it's a simple song about dreaming about a loved one or future loved one
"drop pop candy" by Reol. it's japanese and part of it may have been vocaloid, but it's a classic in my book for songs about admiring and love from afar

to add on to my previous post, I also cover up around other people at home, but that's more a function of their attitudes around genitals than mine

I'm pretty ok with my genitals. when I take the time to really look at and think about them I think of the specific things I like, and I appreciate when they're complimented, but otherwise it's a sort of quiet confidence that's not intensely flaring up

that it prevents you from having a healthy fulfilling sex life

I need classy ways to refer to the schlong in my writing

do the poles pole dancers use spin or do the performers actually go around them? or does it vary?

this is a thread for any discussion of sexual, gender, reproductive, or any other kinds of politics or things in the United States that fall under the purview of Scarleteen's topics on this Independence Day. happy fourth everybody!

just wondering, are there any stores, online or physical, that sell male jock underwear for a reasonable price in US sizes extra small to small mens?

how do they work?

this might be an unnecessary question, but does it matter who said urine comes from in terms of non-STI concerns? I mean STIs are a pretty big concern but still

I'm curious as to what the possible risks are

I want to proudly announce to everyone this 10th day of the Pride month June that today is my boyfriend and I's 6 month anniversary!

for quite a while now, my partner and I have occasionally consensually shared porn with each other on the messaging apps we use, and it's been a positive, bonding experience as we both discuss what each image is before and after it's sent, when is an appropriate time, asking before showing, and the ...

I'm bisexual, but I don't tell my parents, because I honestly don't think it's any of their business. If they see me with my boyfriend then they'll figure out. It's not out of fear or anything, because i know for a fact if they knew I was bi they'd accept me, but I just don't feel they need to know....

nah, I was more trying to spark discussion

it's as though they all think queerness is inherently sexual or something

mostly out of curiosity, does it exist? I'd imagine it's pretty hard to find, and if so, is their audience mostly the "chaser" crowd who objectify them for their genitals?

do they exist? I'd assume so

in the USA, more specifically Northeastern states, is dirty talk/sexual role-play between two minors over text legal? I'd assume so since almost all digital child pornography laws I know of are in regards to images

why are the laws surrounding sexual intimacy over the phone in the united states so draconian and so bent on indiscriminately punishing both those who sext with no harmful intentions and those whose images are leaked to the world without their permission?