thanks for responding ! yeah, im glad i have a bf thats very patient and understanding and we talked about it afterwards and we decided friction might be the problem and we're gonna fix that next time im ready . and with my anxiety, ive made him aware of it, its mostly how i feel about my body and o...

for some context: im a virgin. earlier today, me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time . we had been talking about it for months and a few days ago decided we wanted to do it today . we've talked about what makes each other feel good and we're very good with those kind of conversation...

i have a really healthy and great relationship with my boyfriend and he easily turns me on. but whenever he fingers me or eats me out, I never actually feel any pleasure? i know usually its a problem with not actually being aroused and needing to focus on the two of us, and Im definitely aroused but...