I think I figured out what I’m going to do. I have a lot to learn of course, I find it quite enjoyable however. I realize that if I come from a place of wanting to understand my partner, wanting to accept and love them. Things start to make a whole lot more sense, and they start to feel better too. ...

I will work on that. I agree it’s something I need to learn on. I think I figured out that I don’t really feel like any of my needs are met in this relationship and that’s why I’m struggling to give my partner there’s. It feels like everytime I try to stand up for myself I end up making everything w...

I want to create a safe place for my partner and I want to improve our relationship. But I’ve found as of late that I’m doing even worse than usual. My anxiety’s been more intense, I’m not really caring for myself very well. I know these are probably my problems and I want to fix them but I. can’t s...

We’ve had discussions about this in the past. And I’m trying to find a time to talk about us now. We, haven’t been able to settle anything yet however. I haven’t done a good enough job of making my partner feel comfortable talking to me about things. I’ve found that my partner is still affected by t...

I feel kinda bad saying this but. I guess I kinda wish we had more quality time together and. showed each other more affection. I feel we have it when we’re together, in person. But when we’re apart, or especially with the long distance things seem different.

I’m not sure. I think that might be it? I’ve been trying to think about it but it’s all kind of new. There’s definitely some things that I wish were a bit different. But I realize that has nothing to do with my partner like I thought it did.

My sessions have been going well. I think I can definitely find a way to better utilize them though. I’ve always had this desire to solve my problems by myself which I realize can be detrimental. So I’ll work on that. I realized recently that I might be trying to change my partner. Not who they are ...

I do understand what you’re saying. and I’m trying to accept it for myself. And yes, I’ve always had a fear of being a bad person. pretty much as long as I can remember. I’ve also had this fear that I’m not enough for a long time. And I have a feeling it gets triggered a little more than it actually...

I’m pretty sure it comes from me. I made a lot of mistakes in the past and wasn’t really a great partner. I’ve been able to learn from everything, and I’m getting a lot better. but it took me a long time. And I can’t stop thinking about everything I did wrong. or everything I might have done that I ...

I realize this an open ended question. But what do you do when you feel like a toxic partner?

Hungers not the most pleasant feeling of course but. It usually doesn’t make me feel guilty. I don’t feel guilty for it because I realize more so that it’s a signal to take care of my body. I know everybody feels hungry every once in a while so I’ve never thought about feeling guilty for it.

Hello. I’m sorry for asking so many questions. I hope I don’t take up too much time. The reason I ask at all is because I want to make sure I’m doing the right thing or, find the way to do the right thing. Usually my questions have to do with me worrying about something but this one’s a bit differen...

Thank you. I haven’t read them no. I’ll take a look at them. I would assume it is all tied together yes. How it is I’m not exactly sure but I’d be surprised if they weren’t.

I think it might be. I wouldn’t say I’m a bad partner but. I’d always like to find ways to be better. I’m not actually sure why I feel that way. It’s kinda just always been so. I try and think of what it might be a lot but I can never really find an answer. Sometimes I almost feel like it’s a fear o...

To be honest I’m not exactly sure. I think some it comes from the fact that I don’t really know what I’m doing. This is my first real relationship, and I often find myself trying to understand how to go about it. In the past I made a lot of mistakes because I knew even less, although luckily I’ve gr...

I try not to say anything negative about them. Although I realize things can definitely come off that way. And that’s mostly what I feel bad about. I have no intention of making my partner seem bad, because they aren’t. We definitely have to work on our communication. We’re able to make our way past...

Hello, I. Realized that I’ve made a huge mistake in my relationship. We have a lot of ups and downs, as I’m sure every relationship does. But we’re able to move past them, and try to continue on a better path together. Whenever we have an issue though, if it isn’t solved immediately the way I want i...

I was able to tell them about it, and they responded with some of the things that they’ve been dealing with in regards to us. So we’re focused now on how we can work it out. I agree with everything your saying, and I hope I’ll be able to implement it.

I have not no. I’m afraid that I’ll hurt them if I tell them how I’ve been feeling. I also accept the reasons that it’s been pushed back, I realize they have a lot on their plate and I’m trying to respect that. I’ve just continued to ask for a new time and tell them that it’s alright. I do realize h...

I’d be willing to do most things, so yes absolutely. It’s been our plan for a bit to talk about things we can do together. To simply start spending more time together. Find some things we both enjoy or used to enjoy together and do them again. It’s just that every time we’re about to have that conve...

I, hate asking for help but I think I'm gonna need it. I've been feeling really down and out of it lately, and that's mostly because I've been dealing with a lot. My partner and I have been spending less and less time together, because we've both been going through some tough times. Not regarding to...

I think it's the very last thing you said. It doesn't make me feel like I have to do anything I just feel bad for, well feeling it in the first place. Any thoughts or feelings that come with it tend to make me feel uncomfortable, or anxious like I'm doing something wrong.

Is there anyway to accept them? Because I understand they're human and trying to get rid of them doesn't really seem to do anything other than make me more frustrated. And yes, that is what I'm referring too. I've never really been comfortable with it or understood it, or knew how to deal with it wh...

I was wondering if I could ask about something that really confuses me. As much as I wish I could ignore it, I find that I, feel a certain way a lot. I consider myself Asexual, so I find it really frustrating most times. I also find that it if I can't ignore it, which I usually can but only for a co...

I believe it could be something to bring up. I'm pretty sure I would be able to do that. I think the biggest thing about utilizing it is that oftentimes I'm not very good at knowing exactly what it is I need to work on. Or why I am feeling that way that I am. Not because I think I'm perfect or that ...