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by Leo_3
Fri Dec 15, 2023 8:59 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Should I be going to a gynecologist?
Replies: 10
Views: 17283

Re: Should I be going to a gynecologist?

Yes, that would be very helpful!
by Leo_3
Fri Dec 15, 2023 8:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Re: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

Hi! I had a great time today at the game night. I'm still confused about whether anyone there wants to be my friend (especially the guy I dated), but I'm trying to accept that I can't have all the answers right away. Anyway, tonight got me thinking. Should feeling love/affection hurt? I don't mean r...
by Leo_3
Tue Dec 12, 2023 3:14 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Should I be going to a gynecologist?
Replies: 10
Views: 17283

Re: Should I be going to a gynecologist?

I can't think of any specific event where someone noticed my chest, or said anything about it, I'm just really self-conscious. I wish I knew why people seeing my chest bothers me, but I can't think of any reason why it should.
by Leo_3
Mon Dec 11, 2023 4:57 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Should I be going to a gynecologist?
Replies: 10
Views: 17283

Re: Should I be going to a gynecologist?

Great! I just wanted to make sure it was okay to not be going to a gynecologist. Yes, I quite dislike the extra weight. My back's already messed up (youth scoliosis with an s-shaped curve) and my backpack is pretty heavy (I've done what I can to lighten it up), so I'm not in a great position to be p...
by Leo_3
Sun Dec 10, 2023 6:24 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Should I be going to a gynecologist?
Replies: 10
Views: 17283

Re: Should I be going to a gynecologist?

Hey, I don't know if this was unnecessary, but I moved the "I actually have another question..." part of my reply to another post, since it had a different topic. I thought I would still be able to edit & remove the question from this post, and only just realized it isn't possible to e...
by Leo_3
Sun Dec 10, 2023 4:07 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Re: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

Update: I asked about the game-night. They said that yes, I am completely invited. They texted back that although circumstances have changed, they still want me there. Agh, I could just hug them so much! One thing this experience is teaching me is that I'm a really affectionate person, but have diff...
by Leo_3
Sun Dec 10, 2023 11:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Re: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

Yes, the gardening metaphor does makes sense. I think that's definitely becoming my experience. Sometimes things work out, sometimes they don't, and sometimes they could work at another time. It's important to not take it too personally. I believe people generally like to be around those that make t...
by Leo_3
Sat Dec 09, 2023 10:12 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Re: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

Update: They texted back. (I have no idea why they preferred to answer at almost midnight, but at least they responded?) They thanked me for inviting them, and said that they're busy for a lot of December but will ask their parents if they can go. They said they'll get back to me on it. I know that ...
by Leo_3
Sat Dec 09, 2023 9:41 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Should I be going to a gynecologist?
Replies: 10
Views: 17283

Re: Should I be going to a gynecologist?

"You mentioned that you don’t feel very comfortable talking to your mother. How do you think she would react if you talked to her about possibly seeing an OB/GYN?" Honestly, I don't really know. My guess would be that she would say I should only go if I have a really bad problem with my pe...
by Leo_3
Sat Dec 09, 2023 8:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Re: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

Hello Sam, Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. Thank you! I'll try applying those tips. Social anxiety really is one of the worst parts. On a logical level, I don't mind messing up at all. But emotionally, I'm very afraid. And the constant worry is so tiring that it usually doesn't seem worth the effor...
by Leo_3
Sat Dec 09, 2023 11:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Re: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

Hello Latha, Thank you, what you wrote really helped. I would love help coming up with ideas on how to get closer to them as a friend. They're a grade above me, and we don't share any classes or lunches, so we can only meet outside of school or interact over text/call. They haven't reached out much ...
by Leo_3
Fri Dec 08, 2023 8:23 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Should I be going to a gynecologist?
Replies: 10
Views: 17283

Should I be going to a gynecologist?

Hi, I have a couple of questions about gynecologists. I have a friend who mentioned that they go to a gynecologist. I've read a bit, but I don't know much about what OBGYNs do, or what an appointment looks like. My mother's never mentioned them or had an appointment as far as I know. (She's also fro...
by Leo_3
Fri Dec 08, 2023 7:26 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Re: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

Hi! Thank you for responding. Actually, something happened today that really cleared things up for me. The guy I dated posted on their private Instagram story (I'm listed as one of their close friends) something along the lines of this: "WHEN WERE YOU GUYS GOING TO TELL ME THAT I'M CLEARLY GAY ...
by Leo_3
Thu Dec 07, 2023 7:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General
Replies: 13
Views: 135186

Confusion with Attraction and Sexuality within a Relationship and in General

I wrote this once and it got deleted for some reason, so I'll summarize this time: - I am 15 and have very little experience with relationships. - I know I'm sexually and romantically attracted to girls. I had an intense year-long crush last year that cemented this discovery about myself. - I think ...