Hi, yes kind of. I feel like I'd "deserve" it a bit because if I did it myself I couldn't be mad at others. I think it's also because I'm scared that if I did the same, I wouldn't know how to react. And I'm aware it is an OCD trigger for me, just that it has an underlying reason unlike oth...

Hi, thank you for your reply. I'm starting to see a therapist concerning OCD but it's not completely settled but yes, I'm on my way to improve my anxiety. It's just, I've never been taught about consent. I started to get educated via instagram posts (not the best way Ik) but fully understood this ye...

Hi, sorry I'm a bit nervous rn but after coming to terms with my ex assaulting me in the past, I realized I may have abused him as well but I'm not sure? Our first time was consensual but hurt very badly, just like every time after that. The first two times, I bled (1st was losing virginity, 2nd no ...

And yes, the spaces are exclusivly online because my social circle doesn't know consent as we've never been taught.

I agree and disagree with you. I do believe that overall, false allegations are rare. I myself would count my case towards the "does that count" group as I have realized upon reflection that yes, it does count and it was assault. So I see where you're coming from and agree. No one just ran...

Thank you so much for your answer, you're very kind. It really isn't easy for me since all my information on consent is from the internet and activists. My school focused on reproduction and safe sex during "sex ed" (although it was part of our biology class which might explain why we didn...

I guess I'm scared because I don't want to risk it. My ex assaulted me while I was kind of asleep (like shifting in and out of consciousness) multiple times and blamed it on me. I thought he was the person I could trust the most in my life; my heart shattered. Since then I've been scared that I'm al...

Hi thanks for the reply, I honestly don't know what to think. My ex partner with whom this occurred did not feel violated but I'm beating myself up over it regardless. If it was just a mistake, how can someone else's opinion make or break something as serious as assault? For my social circle would (...

Hi, it‘s a bit embarassing but oh well. I am incredibly bad at oral sex (due to inexperience and past trauma). At least if one asked me to rank myself, I‘d say I‘m pretty bad. Now, to my question: I might be neurodivergent and therefore perhaps taking things too literally but as consent isn‘t taught...