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- Wed Mar 29, 2023 12:34 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Took my Yasmin pill
- Replies: 7
- Views: 5548
Re: Took my Yasmin pill
It doesn't matter, it was still before the late pill.
- Tue Mar 28, 2023 1:55 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Need mental health resources
- Replies: 14
- Views: 23560
Re: Need mental health resources
Medication is definitely a tool that can make a big difference for many people, but if you don't like your psychiatrist it can be hard to bring this up. Is changing psychiatrists an option you've brought up to your parents? Maybe a new person would be more helpful. The problem of needing someone (fr...
- Wed Mar 22, 2023 9:00 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
- Replies: 12
- Views: 14085
Re: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
Absolutely - this language is so much more harmful than people realize. I'll leave that for the other post, but for this one, I just want to say your feelings around this are valid. Unfortunately many trans people deal with gender and/or genital dysphoria, but on the bright side, it means there are ...
- Wed Mar 22, 2023 8:10 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
- Replies: 12
- Views: 14085
Re: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
Sure, that's what we're here for! Has this genital dysphoria been going on for a while or is it something sorta new?
- Wed Mar 22, 2023 7:54 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Fingering myself does not feel good
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7767
Re: Fingering myself does not feel good
If it feels right, then it's okay! But if you are doing it because you feel like you have to, that's putting pressure on yourself. Everyone has different things that work for them, and there's no right or wrong way to masturbate. Insertion doesn't work for many people and that's just as okay. Do you...
- Wed Mar 22, 2023 7:42 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Almost 18 and still haven't been able to masturable
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3450
Re: Almost 18 and still haven't been able to masturable
Hi Eclipse, welcome to the boards! Glad you found us. I gotta say, I relate to what you're saying as I went through a very similar experience up until my early 20s. It can be frustrating, but I actually found that when I stopped overthinking and trying and worrying about it, I found what worked. Eve...
- Wed Mar 22, 2023 7:30 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: i think i might have some unusual/weird kinks
- Replies: 2
- Views: 8661
Re: i think i might have some unusual/weird kinks
Hi SillyMcGoof_, It's normal to have kinks and to feel a bit ashamed of them, especially at your age. Without knowing what you're referring to, I'd say it doesn't make you a bad person and it's not abnormal as long as you're not hurting anyone and the kink (whether you're participating or watching) ...
- Wed Mar 22, 2023 7:14 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
- Replies: 12
- Views: 14085
Re: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
No worries, what you're saying makes sense and is valid. Do you want to talk more about it?
- Tue Mar 21, 2023 11:24 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
- Replies: 12
- Views: 14085
Re: a few concerns about my clitoris and the anatomy of my vulva
Hi there! Vulvas can look pretty different from person to person when it comes to things like our clitoral hood and labia, so it's okay if you feel yours is different from most diagrams and photos you've seen. There's nothing wrong with it, and you shouldn't feel insecure about it, although it's a v...
- Fri Feb 17, 2023 2:52 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Implantation bleeding articles
- Replies: 16
- Views: 10235
Re: Implantation bleeding articles
Thank you for sharing, and I'm sending you so many positive vibes! You're right, it can, so that certainly doesn't help. I do think doing work around trauma in counseling would be good, as well as maybe some pelvic floor therapy. Is that something you'd be willing to look into?
- Fri Feb 17, 2023 1:35 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Depo provera effectiveness
- Replies: 38
- Views: 14157
Re: Depo provera effectiveness
That's more for a longer lasting rub than what the nurse did, also probably with more pressure applied. The quick "rubbing" she did, which was wiping the blood off, won't affect the effectiveness of the injection.
- Fri Feb 17, 2023 1:33 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Implantation bleeding articles
- Replies: 16
- Views: 10235
Re: Implantation bleeding articles
A rule of thumb some people use is '7 days after the expected start', but many people have irregular cycles so there's not an exact number or formula. In your case if 30 is typical and 33 is your longest "normal" cycle then 37 seems like an appropriate marker. There are so many variables u...
- Wed Feb 15, 2023 3:48 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: I only enjoy the excitement leading to sex, not the sex itself
- Replies: 5
- Views: 5429
Re: I only enjoy the excitement leading to sex, not the sex itself
Hi lostandconfused, just jumping in here to check if you wanted to talk about anything specific from the polyamory guide - if you have any questions about it or anything like that, just let me know! And is this anxiety something you've had a chance to talk about with a mental health professional? It...
Re: HIV risk?
Hi Juliaho90, we can't flat out tell you that for sure there is absolutely NO risk, but the risk here is extremely minimal. Have you told your counselor about this, and if so what did they say about it?
- Wed Feb 15, 2023 3:28 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Implantation bleeding articles
- Replies: 16
- Views: 10235
Re: Implantation bleeding articles
Hi! Sure - there's info about it here, if you scroll down about halfway. I will say, implantation bleeding is not common, and usually happens around the time of your normal period time. It's usually around 2 weeks after conception, so 18 days *could* be it maybe, but it's unlikely.
- Tue Feb 14, 2023 2:51 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: Accepting my sexuality
- Replies: 247
- Views: 3134024
Re: Accepting my sexuality
Hi Theansweris42, hope it's okay if I jump in! I agree with Sam that there isn't anything wrong with YOU here, and it's normal to have fluctuating friendships/friend groups, especially at your age. It doesn't mean it doesn't suck, though, and it's understandable that you're feeling a bit down. When ...
- Wed Feb 08, 2023 11:42 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Sex life reminds me of mental health issues
- Replies: 5
- Views: 6994
Re: Sex life reminds me of mental health issues
I LOVE the idea of sewing your clothes into something new, it's a great way to upcycle them! Regardless, whatever you decide to do with them would be valid. You said the things you usually did to feel sexy or sexually empowered don't quite work as well anymore, and I wonder if it's time to try eithe...
- Thu Feb 02, 2023 11:03 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: End of year fears
- Replies: 15
- Views: 18744
Re: End of year fears
Hi Raffles, welcome back. I am so sorry to hear about your wrist bones, ugh, how frustrating! Are you able to still go to work and do other things, or are you on leave? You know--sometimes things get a lot worse before they get better, it's like bad thing after bad thing happens and we feel like we ...
- Thu Feb 02, 2023 10:53 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Polyam / different sexual needs / insecurities
- Replies: 5
- Views: 3540
Re: Polyam / different sexual needs / insecurities
Hi jojomo, welcome to the boards! I hear that you're super conflicted between different feelings, beliefs, and thoughts. This is normal as we grow up around certain stereotypes and stigmas that can be hard to break out of. They can become engraved into our brain since we're young and it takes active...
- Thu Jan 12, 2023 5:48 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Heavy bleeding after losing virginity
- Replies: 16
- Views: 12222
Re: Heavy bleeding after losing virginity
Great! Please keep us posted if you aren't able to receive care or if anything changes. <3
- Tue Jan 10, 2023 6:13 pm
- Forum: Supporting Each Other
- Topic: Insecurity is making me miserable (vent)
- Replies: 3
- Views: 5505
Re: Insecurity is making me miserable (vent)
It's not embarassing, and we're here for you. Self harm is outside our scope since we are not mental health professionals, and I want to make sure you get the proper support. Do you have mental health resources you can utilize to help you in those moments? If not, that's something we can help you fi...
- Wed Dec 21, 2022 12:39 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Bondage/BDSM
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3200
Re: Bondage/BDSM
*Adding on re: privacy concerns, we've also got a great advice column on this! Again, let me know if this is helpful or you have more questions: How can I masturbate without my parents knowing?
- Wed Dec 21, 2022 12:37 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Bondage/BDSM
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3200
Re: Bondage/BDSM
Hi there, welcome to the boards. You know, young people interested in BDSM is actually a common topic we get on here, so before I give my own advice, I recommend looking around on the boards (you can use the search bar to find something more specific) and read other people's threads on this. It migh...
- Wed Dec 21, 2022 12:26 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Feeling anxious
- Replies: 14
- Views: 6896
Re: Feeling anxious
Hi MusicNerd! I don't really have much to add, just wanted to hop in and agree with everything Heather (and everyone else) has said so far. I've found that for myself the sweet spot of being comfortable in a sexual encounter/relationship + enjoying it at the fullest is when I'm a combination of conf...
- Wed Nov 16, 2022 10:29 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Choosing pronouns
- Replies: 7
- Views: 9014
Re: Choosing pronouns
Personally I didn't realize I could choose my pronouns until I was in my early or mid 20s. That's when I decided she/her isn't the only fit, and I'm okay with any pronouns. I usually tell people my pronouns are she/they because those feel the most comfortable, but I really don't care/mind what prono...